Self-awareness
Noticing what is going on inside you before it decides what you do.
Self-awareness is the ability to notice your own thoughts, feelings, and bodily reactions as they arise. It is the prerequisite for every form of self-steering: what you do not notice, you cannot influence. Self-awareness is a trainable habit of attention with two directions, inward and toward the effect you have on others.
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Noticing inner states while they are forming.
Not self-observation in the sense of constant self-criticism, and not brooding about who you are.
It is the first building block of mental strength. Without it, no other skill engages.
Origin and research
The term self-awareness has been used in leadership research for decades, long without a consistent definition. Julia Carden, Rebecca Jones, and Jonathan Passmore reviewed the literature systematically in 2022 and arrived at a working definition: self-awareness comprises awareness of one's own inner states, of their effect on others, and the ability to reflect on both.
Two findings matter for high performers: self-awareness runs as a process and has two directions. Whoever only looks inward without checking the effect outward has half of it.
For high performers
The higher the position, the less often anyone tells you how you come across. At the same time, the number of decisions you make under pressure grows. Together, these make self-awareness more important with every step up the ladder, and harder.
Self-awareness does not begin with the question of what you feel, but with the question of when you last noticed it. Most leaders notice their tension only when others have long since seen it. The gap between arising and noticing is the training variable.
Distinctions
vs. Self-reflection
Self-awareness happens in the moment. Self-reflection looks back afterwards and draws conclusions.
vs. Rumination
Rumination circles around yourself without reaching a result. Self-awareness notices and moves on.
vs. Emotion regulation
Self-awareness is the noticing; emotion regulation is what you do next. Neither exists without the other.
Frequently asked questions
How can I improve my self-awareness?
Through fixed, brief moments of turning attention inward, for example before a meeting or at the end of the day. The effect comes from regularity: the brain learns to report inner states earlier.
Can too much self-awareness be harmful?
What turns harmful is confusing it with self-criticism. Whoever judges every inner state immediately ends up ruminating. Healthy self-awareness takes note without judging, and then moves on.
Why is self-awareness so important for leaders?
Because leaders receive less honest feedback than anyone else in the organization. What no longer comes from outside has to come from inside. Whoever does not perceive their own effect leads blind.
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Further reading
All terms in the glossaryUnderstanding is the first step. Doing is the second.
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